Tips for Men

03/12/2013 12:26

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There you were, just chilling out with your friends in a café, when she entered the room. Your eyes made four and then she smiled. Your mouth dropped opened, but you’re obvious to it. She turned away and your eyes followed her to the table where she joined a group of people.

Immediately, you headed over to her table but as you walked, you found that your body begun to act strangely. Your empty palms became clammy and as you opened your mouth to introduce yourself, your throat became dry and a croaking sound escaped from it.

At this point you lost your courage and shyly retreated to your drink and curiously friends as you verbally kick yourself.

“She could be the one, she could be the one,” you kept telling yourself, but alas, that was the last time you saw her.

Incidences like these are very common, but they do not need to be. Many men find it very difficult to approach and talk with a woman, but in fact, it need not be so difficult.

(1) Be positive, no woman wants to see an unconfident man.

Before you approach a woman, always see yourself in a positive light. That is, do not think badly about yourself. In fact, see yourself as an important person because you are important. Yes, important and not offensive. She will see your confidence and this will open the door to a longer conversation.

(2) Be interesting and attentive

Women are also attracted to interesting men, men who have something to share in the conversation. So share, but also be attentive. Attentive to whatever they are saying. If you only pretend to be listening to them, you would have dropped the ball and this may cause them to end the conversation quickly.

(3) Open-ended questions will keep the conversation going.

When talking with a woman, it is best to ask her open-ended questions and not closed questions. In some cases, closed questions are necessary and during those times, quickly follow up with an opened-ended question or statement.

Open-ended questions are questions that will keep both of you, but especially her, talking. Closed questions on the other hand are questions that will cause the conversation to come to a stand still.

(4) Don’t hang around, say goodbye first.

One way of making sure that you remain on a woman’s mind long after the two of you separates, is by being the first one to say goodbye. Talk with her, but as soon as you have captured her interest, politely, but casually excuse yourself from her presence.

(5) Give sincere and not flowery complements.

Women like to be complemented, but an insincere complement is the same as a terrible one. So, unless what you are about to say to her is genuine, don’t say it. Leave the complements for your first date.

(6) Be Cool, don’t appear to be desperate.

Don’t appear to be a man who is desperate for a woman’s attention. Instead, play it cool, relax, and appear to be someone who is out to have good time with her and not at her expense.

Tips on Dating

(1) Dress to impress, let your clothes do the talking.

When you’re taking a woman on a date, always “dress to impress” as the saying goes. Dress to impress but not to deceive. Dress nicely and appropriately. For example, if you’re taking her to a formally dressed restaurant, don’t grab on jeans and a tee shirt. Visit the barber if you must and spray on some nice cologne, one that is subtle in smell and not overpowering. Women always notice a man’s attire.

(2) Show variety.

Try not to take your date, three dates in a row, to the same kind of places. For example, do not take her to three different theatres in a row. Instead, take her to the theatre, a restaurant and a bar, but not necessary in that order.

(3) Financial security is very important to a woman.

Women are attractive to men who are career oriented, because financial security is very important to them. So, be sure that you are consistently employed.

(4) Show that you care.

When your date is talking, pay attention to whatever she is saying and when you do this, it will make it easier for you to remember many things about her. She will appreciate this and it will open a wider gate to a longer relationship.

(5) Share the conversation.

When you’re on a date, it’s never a good idea to take over the conversation. Share a little about yourself with her and allow her to share a little about herself with you.

(6) Calm the sexual urges and be polite.

Resist the urges to have sexual intercourse with her on your first date. Treat your date well by opening doors for her and bringing her flowers, just to name a few.

(7) Be knowledgeable and be handy in the kitchen.

Be knowledgeable about what is going on around you and this will help to keep the dating conversation going. You can also learn something new; for example, you can take a cooking course or two and impress her by cooking a meal for her on one of your dates.

A Few Signs of Attraction

Observe the signs.

When you’re wondering if a woman is attracted to you or not, you can look out for a few signs.

(1) The smile.

If she smiles and is happy to see you, then this is a good sign. On the other hand, if she’s upset at seeing you, this is not too promising.

(2) Observe the eye contact

If her eyes linger on you, before she slowly turns away with a slight smile, this is excellent; but, if she physically turns her body away from you, this may imply that she is not interested.

(3) Feel her touches.

When she gently touches you as she speaks, this speaks volumes. She is attracted to you. On the other hand though, if she keeps her physical distance, this also speaks volumes.

Tips on Seduction

(1) Write love notes

Write some love notes and slip them under her plate when the food is served in the restaurant.

(2) Use aphrodisiac

Spend a quiet evening at home, eating and feeding her foods that will arouse her, for example strawberry and chocolate.

(3) Weekend getaway

Take her to a hotel for a weekend and make sure that both of you take advantage of the spa facilities.

(4) Flirt with her

Always flirt with her by gentle touching her hair and or holding her hands.

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